Trust & Safety

Safety & Trust Guide for Dating in Thailand

Welcome to MyThaiLove – where real people make real plans. Whether you're here to find love, a fling, or just someone to grab a drink with in Thailand, safety should always come first. This guide is designed to help you understand not only basic online dating safety, but also the unique cultural context and social dynamics that come with dating in Thailand.


Why This Matters

Thailand is a country of contrast: incredibly warm hospitality mixed with a thriving nightlife, old-school traditions alongside modern hookup culture. With that comes a wide range of expectations and risks that might not exist in other parts of the world. Whether you're a foreign visitor or a Thai local, this guide will help you navigate dating here with confidence, caution, and respect.


1. Meet in Public for the First Time

Always arrange your first meetup in a public place. Great options include busy cafes, hotel lobbies, shopping centers like Terminal 21 or Central World, or outdoor markets. Avoid private condos, hotel rooms, or secluded beaches for first-time encounters.

Meeting in public protects both parties. It reduces the chance of scams, pressure, or misunderstandings. It also gives you a chance to get a real vibe before deciding if you're truly comfortable.


2. Understand the Unique Risks in Thailand

Thailand has some specific challenges when it comes to dating:

a. Fake Profiles

Some users may post overly-edited or fake photos. If a profile looks too good to be true, reverse image search it. If they refuse to video call or meet in public, proceed with caution.

b. Scams Involving Money

Common scams include users asking for money for transport, phone bills, or family emergencies. Never send money to anyone you haven’t met in real life. A legit connection should never come with a price tag.

c. Restaurant Scams

Some people will invite you to a specific restaurant, only for you to be handed an inflated bill and pressured to pay. Always suggest a location yourself, or stick to trusted public areas.

d. Confusion Between Romance and Transaction

Some people use dating platforms to promote paid companionship. If that’s not what you’re looking for, clarify boundaries early.

e. Cultural Pressure or Shame Tactics

Be aware of emotional manipulation, guilt-tripping, or pressure tactics. Emotional scams are just as real as financial ones.


3. Know the Difference: Dating vs. Paid Companionship

Thailand has a visible sex industry, especially in cities like Bangkok, Pattaya, and Phuket. Some individuals may be looking for paid arrangements but present themselves as dates. That’s not what MyThaiLove is for.

We focus on real people looking for genuine connections – whether short-term or long-term. If someone is offering services or hinting at payment, report them.


4. Consent and Respect Are Non-Negotiable

No means no. Changing their mind means no. Silence means no. If someone seems uncomfortable, withdraw and give them space.

Consent must be clear and enthusiastic. Anything else is inappropriate and grounds for removal from the platform. This applies to all genders, nationalities, and situations.


5. Use Real, Honest Photos

Authenticity builds trust. Use recent, accurate photos that represent what you currently look like. Don’t use filters that distort your appearance beyond recognition. Don’t post photos of celebrities or models.

You can upload multiple photos on your MyThaiLove profile and when sending an invite. Choose wisely – they’re your first impression.


6. Respect Gender Identity and Preferences

Thailand is home to a wide and visible spectrum of gender identities. Kathoey (trans women/ladyboys) and other transgender individuals are part of the dating scene.

MyThaiLove allows users to select preferences clearly (M2F, F2M, M2M, F2F, T, Friends). Respect people’s identities. If you’re not interested, that’s fine – but be kind and move on.

Misgendering, abuse, or hateful language will get you banned immediately.


7. Share Your Plan With a Friend

Before heading out on a date:

  • Tell a trusted friend where you're going
  • Send them the profile link or username of the person you’re meeting
  • Use location sharing apps like Google Maps or LINE

This isn’t about paranoia – it’s a simple safety step. Especially for solo travelers or expats.


8. Alcohol, Drugs, and Judgment

Alcohol flows freely in Thailand’s social scene. While it’s fine to grab a drink, know your limits. Never:

  • Leave your drink unattended
  • Accept drinks from strangers
  • Use recreational drugs, especially with someone you just met

Thailand has strict drug laws. Getting involved with drugs – even if someone you trust offers – can destroy your trip, or worse.


9. Protect Your Privacy

Only share your phone number, email, or LINE ID after you feel confident. MyThaiLove lets you share contact info only after you accept an invite. Use that built-in buffer to stay in control.

Never share:

  • Passport or visa info
  • Hotel room numbers
  • Financial account details
  • Your travel itinerary (especially if you're alone)

10. Use the Platform as Intended

MyThaiLove is not a hookup site or escort service. It’s a listings-based dating platform. People post what they want to do, where, and when. Then others can send an invite.

We intentionally avoid swiping and endless chatting. If someone abuses the system or uses it for solicitation, scams, or harassment, report them.


11. Report Suspicious Behavior

We rely on the community to help keep the platform safe.

Use the "Report" button if:

  • Someone offers money or asks for money
  • You suspect a scam
  • Their profile seems fake
  • You experienced harassment, disrespect, or stalking

All reports are confidential. We investigate and take action.


12. Know Your Rights – and Limits – as a Foreigner

If you're visiting Thailand:

  • Understand that overstaying a visa can lead to arrest
  • Be cautious of being filmed or photographed during intimate encounters
  • Do not assume local laws match those in your home country

If something goes wrong, you can contact the Tourist Police at 1155 – they offer English-speaking support.


13. Understand Thai Culture Around Dating

Some things to keep in mind:

  • Public affection is okay in nightlife areas, but frowned upon elsewhere
  • Thai people often avoid direct confrontation – watch body language and tone
  • “Saving face” is important – don’t insult, argue, or embarrass your date
  • Some Thai women and men are genuinely interested in foreigners; others are not
  • Age-gap relationships are common, but be respectful in your approach

Respect is attractive. Arrogance is not.


14. Red Flags to Watch For

Be cautious if someone:

  • Asks for help with bills or family problems
  • Avoids video calls or meeting in public
  • Is vague about where they live or work
  • Avoids questions but pushes for yours
  • Tries to move the conversation off-platform too quickly

You don’t owe anyone your time or trust. If something feels off, walk away.


15. Keep It Fun, Keep It Safe

Most people on MyThaiLove are here for the same reason you are: a fun, respectful, real-life connection. You can meet incredible people here. You can also run into the occasional creep, scammer, or misaligned match.

Use common sense. Take your time. Respect yourself and others. And when in doubt — don’t go.


Final Words

Thailand is one of the most exciting places on Earth to meet new people. The culture is open, the energy is vibrant, and connections can happen fast. But with that freedom comes the responsibility to protect yourself and others.

Stay sharp. Be kind. Have fun. And if you ever feel unsafe, don’t hesitate to act, report, or walk away. The right connection is out there — and it won’t come with drama, danger, or deception.

You’re in control. MyThaiLove is just the spark. You decide what happens next.